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Thursday, August 23, 2007
REFLECTIONS ON HEFEI
(pronounced her-fay):


This is a city full of re-construction. I would love to re-visit in 2-5 years from now and see the plan that is set in place unveiled. Everywhere you go there are piles of bricks where a building has been demolished. Right behind or beside is a skeleton of a building soon to be. There are also still many bicycles being used as the main form of transportation. We were told that this practice is disappearing and being replaced by cars and trucks. I am very grateful to have a glimpse of life as it was before time and technology overcome the past. Hefei is also full of hard-working people. All around there are persons on the go with goods to deliver and jobs to complete. In the parks there are elderly folks playing games, playing with children or enjoying a mid-day nap. The view from our room provides a glimpse into everyday life in Hefei.. There are several apartment buildings about the size of a hotel we might know of at the Jersey shore. These units house families, it is the ir home. Every morning we watch their day begin. There is washing, cooking, children laughing, dogs barking and people hanging out wash. Our hotel rises high above their building so we enjoy the birds eye view. At first I was sad to see this disparity between front and back. As on the front side we see the beautiful park and busy street. But now I know there is a reason for this. In just a few days I have gone from feeling this is so foreign to genuine affection for our daughters province and the way of life here. Yes, it is just a glimpse; but it is wonderful. A treasure to store in my heart and mind forever. The foundation of many stories to share with our precious Anhui Princess.

What we know about
our daughter so far:


It is apparent that her nannies gave her much love and care. We know this as she gives so much to us already. She loves to hug, kiss and even feed us her food. She can walk fairly steadily with a bit of a staggering gait. She has an excellent pincer grasp, banana puffs are her favorite. She pops them right in her mouth, one after the other. We also know it only takes two days to create a habit in her world. The last two day of touring has had her falling asleep on one of us in the bus. As a result, she now wants to nap on us and go to bed laying on one of us. Today we are gently trying to change this. Not that we don’t live to snuggle her, but…we need our sleep also. Sorry, Ju-lie. We know her understanding of Chinese is extensive as when others speak she is very attentive. She tries to say Mama, I am SO flattered! She also loves to play this game where she throws things on the floor and we pick it up. Then we say “Uh-Oh!” Now she purses her little lips in the cutest pucker trying to say, “Uh-Oh!” It makes us all mushy every time she does it.

Our visit to the zoo today was very interesting. We saw tigers, brown bears, peacocks, lots of monkeys and even a sleeping panda bear. There was a sea lion show but the heat was so oppressive we decided to pass and head back to the bus. The babies enjoyed their visit and the other visitors at the zoo loved to see us. Once again, we all felt like we were one of the exhibits. One man even videotaped us! So much for the panda…

Tonight at 5:30 we are having a BYOT party in the lounge. Bring your own toy that is. The babies are all very close in age so it should be lots of fun. Tomorrow is Friday and the babies get their passports. Then on Saturday we can all make the flight to Guangzhou to meet up with the Guangdong families. YEAH!!
 
PRAYERS: that our travel companion Debbie will heal from her twisted ankle and bruised leg at the zoo today. Also, that all the babies continue in their bonding process with their new Mommies and Daddies. That our sons, Matthew and Mitchell will be safe while we are away.

PRAISES: Ju-lie has recovered from her “diaper issue”, thank you for your prayers. We all survived the heat at the zoo today. Ju-lie’s cough and stuffy nose is slowly improving. There are two Dads in our group who are first time parents. Today the babies grew to trust them and finally they were able to hold their babies. What a joy, praise the Lord!!

Scenic Hefei


In Hefei Wildlife Park


Feed Me Please


Being Silly


Bridge Over Lake


I Love My Mama

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