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Sunday, August 26, 2007
LIFE AT THE WHITE SWAN AND BEAUTIFUL GUANGZHOU


We started our day at 6:00 am when our little Empress awoke; then went downstairs for breakfast to the River Garden Restaurant. They have a sumptuous buffet every morning. It is nice to eat some American food for breakfast. It is also nice to be “just one of the crowd”. What I mean by that is here at the White Swan, the hotel is filled with Americans who have Chinese children. No big deal, its normal. In Hefei, we were literally always on display, like a celebrity must feel. Only on the last day did I sort of get used to it. Even today in the city a crowd gathered around us and just stared. As I sat at breakfast today I realized what a unique little period in our lives these five days is.

As soon as we get home, we will become someone people do double takes at again. Though certainly not like in Hefei or the city here.

After breakfast we decided to explore the area around the hotel. The best way I can describe Guangzhou for locals in our area is that it is rather like the Stockade in Schenectady only much bigger. Or perhaps like Barbados, as I recall. One memory I will have for many years is seeing brides and grooms posing in the park near the chapel for formal portraits. Such beautiful dresses, all traditional Chinese styles. Brides are all stunning but this was a sight to behold. One couple even graciously allowed us to take a photo.

As we neared the Pearl River we could hear music and singing. In a gazebo there was a band and three woman singers. The men were playing instruments that I could not identify but have always heard in Asian music styles. It was a pleasure to see these instruments played live and so well. All around the performers were locals doing Tai Chi and various exercises. Many of them elderly folks who were very fit. We have learned a lot from observing Ju-lie’s culture. It would be impossible to come home and feel we were not changed positively for this experience. The examples are simply too many to cite.

This afternoon we visited a museum that is housed in a 200 year old temple. Many of the artifacts there are carvings out of various woods and stone. But to me, the most remarkable were the embroidery pieces. The work is so fine, you would think that it is a painting. The time and effort required for this art is nothing short of astonishing.

I feel honored that God has chosen me to be the parent of a child from China. I pray that I can live up to the high standards that her culture embodies. I am so thankful to have this time here to witness first-hand what a magnificent country this truly is. And we have only seen a glimpse! This will be my motivation to continue to learn more about its history, the language and the people. Typing this brings to mind a conversation that we had with a storeowner today. He asked where our daughter was from and we said the Anhui province. He explained that people from Anhui have certain physical characteristics that set them apart from other provinces. I sat astounded as he explained; realizing that in our country it would be silly to say such a thing. I find it mind-boggling that, still, her culture is so genetically unsaturated making this possible! This is only one of the many truly amazing experiences we have had.
 
PRAYERS: That our little ones will all do well during the medical exams tomorrow, that our boys Matthew and Mitchell and Dad will continue to be safe and well during our absence.

PRAISES: That our babies are healthy and adjusting well to their new families, that we have the opportunity to learn about our daughters culture. For our family and friends who are so lovingly caring for our sons and Dad while we are away. For our church family at Parkside Covenant Church who are diligently praying for our safe journey. We feel your prayers way across the ocean, keep them coming.

Sharing melon with Daddy


Shopping for Squeaky Shoes!!


Morning Exercises in the Park


Our guide Der and translator Laura


Lovely Guangzhou Skyline



 

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