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Friday, February 12, 2010
FROM HOMESICK TO
HOME AND SICK!
We are home safe and sound and together as a family again. We
made it home Saturday night and were greeted at the airport by
friends and family. It was an awesome sight. Greg and I were so
happy to see our other four children and they were happy to see
us. Adam immediately reached for his oldest brother Stephen and
called him Ge Ge (Chinese for oldest brother). You can tell he
has been prepared for this for a long time. He went to each of
his siblings and was so content. He did great on the flights
even though he only slept three of the 15 hours of the longest
flight. He is so easy. I would travel anywhere with him. He
never cried, not once. He played, watched movies and ate.
When we got home he played with everyone and even showed off his
new English phrases. Everyone agrees he is super cute! Our
transition at home has been for the most part easy. There is one
relationship however that will take time to grow. Samantha and
Adam are only 5 months apart. As I have said before Samantha is
a Mama's baby. She really really likes her role as Mama's baby.
So much so that sometimes she refers to herself by name as
Mama's baby. So she is a little spoiled, what can I say? I am
paying the price now. She has decided she is not a big sister
but a baby. She has even been known to crawl like a baby lately.
When we were at the pediatricians office on Tuesday she refused
to walk. I have to carry Adam, he can't walk, so my wonderful
pediatrician, Dr. K. Riley, carried Sam to my car and strapped
her in for me. It was a proud moment. One day we will laugh
about all this because in time she will accept her new role as
big sister. We have already seen huge improvements just this
week. Whenever she acts like a big girl I tell her how proud I
am of her!
All of these changes would also be easier if I was not sick. I
started feeling bad in China just before we left. The trip home
and the first few days have been rough because of it. It is the
reason this post is late. Just today I feel like I am turning
the corner and feeling better. Nothing but blue sky's ahead!
I just have to say that Adam is one of the sweetest, most loving
children I have ever met. The fact that I get to call myself his
mom is an honor. Our lives would not have been as rich without
him. Yes we are rich! Not in the way that the world calls rich
but in was that are indescribable. Some people have called us
amazing, great people, wonderful or crazy for taking on a 5th
child with medical issues. I disagree with all of it. We get the
joy of knowing this child and raising him. He has so much
potential that for many reasons could not have been realized in
China. He is where he belongs. What sacrifice is it for us to
get up each day to his beautiful smiling face? It is no
sacrifice at all it is what makes ours lives so rich!
If you have followed his story for some time you will remember
he was sick at the beginning of January. Well, I have taken him
to three different doctors and not one thinks he has an
obstructed bowel or an appendicitis. No one thinks he needs a
surgery and the urologist said his bladder is working just fine.
Do you believe God heals? I do. He has answered so many prayers
for this little guy. That is the topic of my next and final
post.
Thanks for following our story!
Blessings,
Jennifer |

All together for the first time

My big brother Stephen

First breakfast at home

Happy in his bed

Loved!

"Love Grows"
Sam and Adam- Two My Adoption Website Cuties! |