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Tuesday, January 5, 2010
GOTCHA DAY!

I have read that Gotcha Days are just amazing.

There are truly, no words.

Lilly (our substitute guide) came and got us and we ran over to the Civil Affairs place. Making sure we got there super early so we could sit and wait and panic for a while. And we did.

We waited for almost 1/2 hour and I happen to go out into the hallway and I see a group of people coming our way. It was her. And she has this special walk, because of the cerebral palsy and because she had 3 thick layers on even though it is hot and humid outside, and I knew it was her. Instead of waiting for her to come to me, I ran back in to John and cried.

THIS WAS IT!

All those years came down to this moment.

And we stared shaking.

She was beautiful. She came right to me. And John. And she played with Samuel. Then, she happen to look for her grandmother, and she didn't see her.

And then all reality set in for her. And she started bawling. For a long time.

The Civil Affairs people came in and told us that we ordinarily have 24 hours to decide if we really want her. But since we didn't get her yesterday, and in order to make the time for all the appointments and paper work to fall in place, do we want to waive that grace time.

Duh.

I guess I understand that. But seeing as you work so hard for this for years at the other end, and you get yourself out here, which is not a walk across the park, to think that one would actually reject your child of the heart?? It is kind of like rejecting your biological child.

But they still have to make sure.

Anyway, the orphanage director came by and took Elly and she spoke to her and whatever she said worked because after us trying for about an hour to get her to stop crying, she stopped after about a minute with her.

And then she was happy child. She is so delightful. And she loves to smile.

And we are amazed at the blessing that our GOD has allowed us to experience once again.

Quote of the Day:
When I first picked her up, I was shocked and mentioned she felt like a brick. Samuel, when he picked her up "She is our gold brick."

Elly walking into the room with her entourage.


With John, before the reality hit.


NOT happy.


Making her ours.


Playing with brother in the taxi.


With her Vera Bradley.
She is quickly becoming her mother's child.


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