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The Paper Chase
 

So now we were set on a country and we smiled and cried and hugged and kissed and then came the piles and piles of applications and forms and documents that preoccupied the next eighteen months of our lives.

Follow our paper trail to our daughter. I think if you laid every sheet of paper end to end from our kitchen table, the last sheet of paper would reach our daughter in China.

 

OUR TIMELINE
May 26, 2004  Application received at New Beginnings
June 7, 2004 File the State Central Register Database Check. Now we start the real paper chase! We filled out pages and pages of profiles, questionnaires and wrote long autobiographies about our lives.
June 10, 2004  Attended a New Beginnings Seminar.
July 12, 2004 Adoption Profile and Questionnaire approved by New Beginnings.
August 9, 2004 Howard’s Letter of Employment is drafted
August 20, 2004 Mandee’s Letter of Employment is drafted.
August - September 2004 Sent away and went to various town halls and government agencies for birth certificates, marriage licenses, and had them certified and notarized.

Compiled three years of tax returns and partnership schedules and a financial statement. Thank goodness Howard is a CPA!

Fingerprint’s at the Police Station with Howard, Mandee and Papa June. Met Uncle Gordon’s colleagues at the police station.
September 16, 2004 Howard, Mandee and Papa June are off to the Nassau County Police Headquarters’ for a state criminal record’s search. We all receive our Certificate of Good Conduct.
September 19, 2004 Howard and Mandee get medical examination reports back from Doctor Basta. Our local notary notarizes all documents.
October 5, 2004 New Beginnings received all documents and assigns Bonnie Goess as our social worker to visit with us and write our home study report.
November 18, 2004 Bring all documents to the County Clerk’s office for Notarization and then to the Department of State for Authentication.
November 19, 2004 I-171H filed.
November 24, 2004 Filed our I600/I-600A and received by USCIS
(United States Citizenship and Immigration Services under the Department of Homeland Security). In the good ole’ days this branch of government was called INS. Now we wait for an appointment to have our fingerprints taken again. This time it is run through the FBI. This appointment will be granted after the home study report is sent to USCIS by New Beginnings.
November 29, 2004 Our Home study was approved!
December 2004 Mandee Howard and Papa June are off to get fingerprints taken.
January 2005 Mandee’s fingerprints are rejected.
January 12, 2005 Papa June’s fingerprints were rejected.
January 13, 2005 Second appointment for fingerprints for Mandee.
January 31, 2005 Papa June’s Fingerprints are cleared.
February 2, 2005 Second set of Mandee’s fingerprints are rejected. I must meet with Manuel Hernandez at USCIS in Manhattan and take an oath.
February 17, 2005 Fingerprint clearance for all! Hooray! Now our I-600/I-600A is completed. We  went through such stress with the fingerprint fiasco’s. This held up our Dossier to China an additional two months.
March 1, 2005 Yes! Our Dossier to China is on it’s way to CCAA.
March 25, 2005 Our Log in Date is March 25, 2005. Now all we can do is wait, wait, wait.

And Eight Very long . . .long  . . . months later!

November 10, 2005 We receive our referral! We have a beautiful baby girl! I got the call at 11:00 am. I was the first to post a referral on the March DTC board. I fly like a bird to New Beginnings to meet our daughter. Howard meets me at the agency. Pauline Park our director hands us our daughter’s photo and referral from China.
November 12, 2005 Doctor Lee checks her medical report.
We sign the “Letter of Seeking Confirmation of Adopter” for CCAA.
November 14, 2005 We hand deliver signed letter to New Beginnings.
November 17, 2005 New Beginnings sends the referrals back to China.

December 2005

Avian Influenza (Bird Flu) strikes China and there is an alert issued by the American Government that there might be terrorist activities in Guangzhou, the city we are traveling to. What more can go wrong now. We will pray that our daughter will be safe and out of harm’s way and that we will be able to travel safely.

Within the last few weeks of November we met one of our travel families.  Barbara, Andrew and Joshua are so wonderful. We met at FCCLI party just a few days after receiving our referrals. The boys hit it off great! Josh and Matthew are just about one year apart and both are big Pokemon fans. Barbara and Andrew and Howard and myself are very compatible. They were so kind when Howard’s dad passed away, the came over to offer support. We have gotten together several more times over the past few weeks are fast becoming good friends. Our daughters are eight days apart and are looked after by the same caregiver in their orphanage. They are already as close as two sisters can be. So are lives are quite paralleled. Our sons and daughters will be great friends and so will the mommies and daddies. The best part is we live only thirty or forty miles away from each other.

Now we are waiting to meet family number three! Hopefully we will all get to meet before our travel. 


 


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