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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Hey everyone! We ended Saturday thinking we would have more time to post updates. Were we wrong! So here is a recap of the past couple of days. Sunday morning we headed out with our travel group to visit the Guangdong Folk Arts Museum. Within the museum there are several halls and courtyards that house masterpieces of stone carving, wood carving, brick carving, ivory carving and other traditional crafts. We purchased 3 paper cuttings of each of our Chinese zodiac animals to frame together. After a couple of hours of touring the museum, we headed back to the hotel for lunch and a nap for Eliana (and Melissa and Tom too!) Sunday afternoon, our guide Zhou took the group out for a walk to a local market, which was bunch of streets with endless stalls of various bulk goods from mushrooms, spices, trinkets and pets. The streets felt as crowded as Times Square in NYC on New Year’s Eve. As we waited for a few families to go with Zhou to the pharmacy, we created quite the spectacle. We were mobbed by a large group of people; it almost felt like we were being photographed by the paparazzi. We walked to the end of the street and it opened to a huge public square where there was crazy loud music being played. The music was an unusual remix of vintage Eminem. Next we walked a few blocks to a Pearl and Jade market, which looked more like a four story mall. Many moms purchased pearls for their daughters and for gifts for families back home. We did not buy anything as our Eliana became ravenously hungry and let the entire mall know about it. Once she ate a bottle (thank goodness for being prepared), she quieted down and enjoyed the walk home.

Monday Zhou took our documents to the US Consulate in the morning to be reviewed one last time for accuracy. Then we waited for the phone call from him, letting us know that everything was in order and that we could go to the Consulate in the afternoon for the final signing and the oath taking ceremony. We shopped until it was time to board the bus, to head off the island to go to the Consulate. We don’t remember what the oath said exactly, because when we raised our right hands to say the words Eliana raised her hand too. It was extremely precious. When she imitates us or has any sort of breakthrough, it feels better than any volleyball victory has ever felt. After we came back to the island, we tried to have dinner at the Thai restaurant called the Cow and bridge or Bridge and Cow (the name has a cow and a bridge or something.) We pushed our luck that day because Miss Eliana was not happy at dinner. I guess the lesson learned was, if we have a big day back home, do not try and go out to dinner without a nap. We have tried to find or make the best schedule you can make living in a hotel room. If we keep to a consistent nap schedule, Eliana has less meltdowns. I am hoping that keeping a schedule is a little easier at home than in a hotel.

Tuesday we shopped and hung out around the room. It is Wednesday here and we all went for a morning walk to see all of the people doing aerobics, tai chi, playing cards and Mai Jong. It is so peaceful and inspiring to watch everyone exercising and you get such a sense of community. No one was on a cell phone; everyone was talking and having a good time. This has been the first morning that I have felt that we had it all together, and then Eliana started coughing and vomited. Nothing like the little one throwing a curve ball at you? This would not bother me as much if we were at home, or getting to stay here a few more days, but we have to get on a plane tomorrow. Throwing up baby is really scary to me while flying on a plane.

Here are some things that we have figured out about Eliana:

We have found that Eliana does not like to eat in a restaurant after she is woken up from a nap. This was the case after Tom took Eliana out for a morning stroll in the park and she fell asleep in the snuggly. She has started to go across the room to play in the mirror, but she looks back to make sure that we are still there. She loves to play with hard toys, banging them together, on wooden chairs and shaking them to see what noises they will make. She is starting to give her stuffed bear hugs and kisses. But she definitely does not gravitate toward it when she plays. Finally, (I don’t want to jinx this but,) Eliana has gone down for 3 naps/bedtimes in a row without screaming. She is waking up more pleasantly too. She is learning that she does not have to wake up in a fit to get our attention to get her out of the crib. Her latest thing is that she can wave hi and bye. They are two different actions, hi is the double handed forward wave and goodbye is the backwards funny kid wave.
We will update you when we get home. Not sure when, and I won’t say more often, because you saw what credibility I have the last time I promised this. We can’t wait for jetlag again!

A little drool on the chin


Melissa and Eliana in the Victory Hotel playroom


No more pictures


Eliana helping pack for our trip home


Melissa and Eliana at our final dinner in Guangzhou


Our last night in Guangzhou


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