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Why China?

 

Because that’s where our daughter is…

Many years ago (before marriage and children) I read an article about the girls who were abandoned in China. I believe since that day adoption from China has had a place in my heart. After John and I got married, we had two children. Then the subject of adoption came up when we discussed adding to our family again. I attended a seminar at a local adoption agency and was ready to get started but John’s heart wasn’t ready. I pushed the idea of adopting out of the forefront of my mind and we had another biological child. Not long after that I started thinking about adopting a lot. In the meantime God had starting to prepare John, he received several “signs” and shared with me that he was ready. Then we got a received a little miracle and along came child number four. I honestly thought John would abandon the adoption idea because 4 kids is a lot. But five??? After number four was born and about 9 months old we talked and were both still willing to pursue the adoption of a child, we strongly felt this was something God had led us to. It just felt right. We began the process in August of 2007 to adopt from China, the country imprinted in my mind so long ago. We logged in to China on 12-17-07. We quickly discovered the wait was long. Too long. This past fall we decided to check the special needs lists when they came out every month. For several months we checked the list but did not find our daughter. Then in October, there was a little girl on the list, she was older than we originally requested but something in me compelled me to ask for her file. When we opened the file we knew she was meant to be ours. We contacted our agency and requested to lock her in for 48 hours. I felt strongly this was our daughter but we wanted to know exactly what issues we were facing. After speaking with several medical professionals we knew this was a very minor issue and we could handle it. We sent in our Letter of Intent on October 31, 2008. We believe that God used our desire for a daughter and the long wait to lead us right to Bi Hong. We feel so fortunate that he picked us to be her family and cannot wait to bring her home.


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