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Fall 2006

We are excited to announce our log-in-date! It is September 20, 2006 (9-20-06). This is a significant date in the adoption process because this marks when our wait begins. "China Center of Adoption Affairs" (CCAA) now has our dossier "logged in" and we are in line for adopting one of their beautiful children! The wait right now is 12-16 months, but things can change at anytime. We are actually fine with the wait because it is all in God's hands and He knows what is best! Also, since our youngest two children are still so little, it will give them time to mature and prepare for a baby sister. This will be a wonderful year of learning patience, learning to trust in a Sovereign God, and learning all about China as we wait for our referral.

We have had a great summer full of fun activities with the children. Softball season was exciting with Abigail playing shortstop for her team. Gracie continued piano lessons through the summer and went on a mission trip to Broken Arrow Bible Ranch in New Mexico where she had the opportunity to minister to Indian children. It was a great experience for her! Evie and Jack Henry have grown so much! Evie has needed much more structure time, so I did some pre-K school time with her over the summer! She is like a sponge and absorbs information so easily- it is amazing what children can learn at such a young age. We are now doing "school" with Evie everyday- she loves it! Jack Henry wants to do everything Evie does! I do let him "color" and eat a snack while Evie and I have "school time". It works out great( well, most of the time)!

We ended our fun summer with a beautiful vacation to Destin, Florida. Mike had a week long dental meeting there and we all tagged along! It was beautiful and relaxing, too! We spent mornings at the beach (while Mike was at his meeting) and afternoons were full of shopping, visiting Baytowne Wharf, and more beach time. We always ate delicious seafood for dinner. Our favorite family dinner spot is Pompano Joe's. Mike and I always go out to dinner one night by ourselves. This year we went to the Marina Cafe. The food was excellent and the view of the harbor was breathtaking especially at sunset when we were there. One of the highlights of the week was a sunset dolphin cruise. We ventured out on a glass bottom boat and enjoyed seeing lots of dolphins and jellyfish. The Captain of the boat had pictures of a beautiful Chinese girl about three years old, so being nosey, we decided to ask about her. Come to find out, his daughter and her husband had adopted her from China a couple of years ago. She was so precious. It is funny, now that we are actually in the process of adopting, we notice people with that in common with us everywhere we go. I love to hear other people's stories!

Here is our adoption timeline for those interested:

April 1: Our first application approved with our agency, Chinese Children Adoption International (CCAI)

April 4: Sent for Mike's birth certificate and our marriage certificate from vitalcheck.com

April 17: Received Dossier packet from CCAI

Received Homestudy packet from our homestudy agent

April 23: First homestudy visit in our home

April 25: Kim's physical with doctor

April 28: Mike's physical with doctor

May 1: Kim applied for passport

May 5: Mike applied for passport

May 24: Received police clearance reports

May 26: Second homestudy visit (in social worker's office)

May 31: Filed I 600-A and had fingerprints done our local USCIS office

June 1: Sent Kim's birth certificate to People's Republic of China Embassy in Washington, D.C. for authentication

June 2: Third homestudy visit


Jack Henry having fun in the sun!


Mike and Jack Henry at our favorite restaurant-Pompano Joe's.


Evie and Jack Henry watching the waves.


Sweet memories


Our girls


Enjoying Baytowne Wharf at Sandestin
 
June 9: Final Homestudy visit

July 14: Received homestudy rough draft

July 18:
Homestudy draft reviewed and approved by CCAI

July 20: Homestudy sent to USCIS

July 29: Received 171-H

July 31: Documents state certified

August 8: Documents received that were authenticated by the Houston Chinese Consulate

Sent completed dossier to CCAI

August 21:Documents sent to China (DTC date)

September 20: LOG -IN -DATE!

 
Prayer Requests:

Pray for Lydia-- We do not know if she is born yet. But,more than likely the birthmother is pregnant or has already given birth. Please pray that God will comfort and help her as she goes through difficult days. Please pray for her health-that she would be strong and that her caregivers would love her and take good care of her. Pray that God will be preparing her little heart to accept love from us and that she will feel loved until we can get there.

Pray for her birthmother--As the mother of four children, I could not imagine feeling like I "had" to give up my baby. The pressure for these birth mothers is great and they often see no other option. Pray for this woman's heart- that somehow God would reveal Himself to her through this difficult trial.Also,thank God in your prayers that Lydia's birthmother chose life for her!

Our travel plans-- Please pray for us to have wisdom as we decide who should travel to China. This is the hardest part of the process for us. Our three options are the parents go, the whole family goes, or one parent with our two oldest goes. We want to do what is best for everyone.

That God would receive glory-- not us! We want God to be glorified throughout this process. He gets all the credit for this, because He is the One bringing it all about. We can rest in his sovereignty and love--pray that we will. . .

An excerpt from "An Orphan's Prayer"
Even as I lay in the darkness
each night somehow I feel assured,
That no matter how lost I appear, I am not alone.
Holy hands guard my steps; sacred fingers wipe my tears, touching my lonely heart.
The one who made me,
The God that knew me before I was born,
Hears me every time I call.
He whispers His promises in my ear.
I listen with hope to His voice.
Author Unknown


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