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Monday, May 12, 2008
MAROSSIE DAY!!!

This was the most exciting day of our married life to date. We went to breakfast this morning and then went to work sorting and arranging for things to come. The anticipation mounting, we prepared ourselves for a short ride to the civil affairs office nearby and waited downstairs for Bob to bring us there.

After a ride in the inner city of Guangzhou we arrived nervous and excited. We rode the elevator up to our floor and went to a very modern room where we completed paperwork, while watching other families unite for the first time. Bob warned us that Marossie had not arrived yet, so all we could do is wait. Our travel companions saw there baby, Rachel, arrive first. They recognized her and Marossie soon followed through the curtains. In less than a minute we had arrived at parenthood and our dreams of two plus years had been realized. With Marossie in our arms we melted down. We went back to the couches and sat with her. After a few minutes she began to cry heavily with grief. I now had to earn my daddy stripes by trying to comfort my grieving child. This turned out to be next to impossible. It was so hard not being able to “fix it” for her; all I could do was hold her and cry too.

While I was trying out my new daddy skills; Amy was asking the orphanage staff questions about Marossie's eating schedule and current health. Amy and I were very concerned when we immediately noticed some nasal discharge (lets just say it was colorful), Our awesome guide Bob got on the phone with the Canadian American medical care facility in the Garden Hotel and reserved an appointment for us to see a doctor right away. We are so grateful that we were able to be seen so fast. We dropped off The Duncans at our hotel and off we went.

We were greeted by an awesome team of medical professionals. The doctor was wonderful. He did a full exam on an already traumatized baby. Marossie was so brave and was an excellent patient, we could not be more proud of her. She got a diaper change first thing. Next came the weight and measure. Then there was the exam by the doctor. He was fine with everything and while looking through the records was about to let us go when he realized Marossie was 16 months old. He then changed his tone. He wanted to get a blood sample and establish her “baseline”. Long story short Marossie has an upper respiratory infection and tonsillitis; the doctor ordered her an antibiotic, decongestant and vitamin C supplement for the malnutrition. The doctor was very serious when he made us promise to feed her. No problem! We took a taxi back to the hotel, relaxed in the room for a brief time and went to Lucy's again for dinner. We were happy that Marossie ate chicken congee and a little apple juice. She has had some antibiotic and decongestant with her nightly feeding and she is relaxing in paradise.

Our daughter is beautiful and lovely. We cant wait until tomorrow, to show her off!

We Love Y'all,

James and Amy



 

Just minutes before meeting Marossie's


Our first glimpse


Finally a family of three!


James is officially a daddy!


On our way to see the doctor


Waiting for the lab results


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