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Monday,
July 28, 2008
GOTCHA DAY!
It's "gotcha day". We spend a nervous half day around the
hotel
waiting to go to the place where we'd pick up Ava. We had
brought
with us a number of suggested gifts for the orphanage and
got busy
assembling the gift bags. That didn't take very long so we
decided to
take a walk along the Pearl River outside the hotel (in
108 degrees).
There were lot's of locals in the nearby park dancing,
practicing Tai
Chi, swimming (in a very polluted Pearl River), playing
Mahjongg,
etc. We shot a video of a big community singalong that was
going on
too.
Before going
to get the kids all of the moms were full of nervous
energy. Many were walking through the park with us or roaming
the
halls of the hotel. Some were prone to random bouts of tears.
One
lady, who has never had a child, had already gone through two
boxes of kleenex. (As it turns out, her 3 1/2 year old daughter is
missing one
hand and blew us all away at dinner last night by tying the
laces of a
picture book in a bow. You can't imagine how awesome that little
girl
is. Naturally, Mom is already talking about adopting again.)
April was taking it all in stride. I know her stomach was a
little
upset - she always gets that way with big anticipation of
something.
I think after having 4 boys she was probably a little more solid
than
some of the other moms.
Guangzhou is truly an amazing place, and I doubt unlike
other cities
in China. The things you see here really cause you to put
things into
perspective. There are buildings for as far as the eye can
see in
every direction and the streets are teeming with people.
The streets
are lined with small shops where the shopkeepers sell
materials of
every kind - pipes, gears, fabrics, etc. Usually there's
2-3 guys
sitting around by the shop front, waiting for patrons.
Some are
shirted, some are not. Many are smoking. It turns out that
about 90%
of the world's athletic shoes and jeans are manufactured
right here in
Guangzhou. However, you don't want to actually buy such
things in
Guangzhou because the Chinese get the seconds.
Riding on the bus to pick up the kids is a surreal
experience. We
were taught to cross streets only by following the locals,
which know
the timing intimately. In China, the car has the right of
way, not
the pedestrian, and I can assure you that they don't stop.
It doesn't
matter if you're a kid or an elderly lady - they will not
stop. Many
times, bicyclists would ride right up next to the bus in
traffic,
while another bus would pass next to them within inches. I
never once
saw anyone get hit. |




Another thing that was truly amazing to us is the way that
materials
and goods get transferred. It is largely done by foot
power. The
Chinese work very hard for very little. |
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After a 15 minute or so bus ride, we got to the place where
we'd pick
up the kids - the Adoption Registry Center of Guangdong
Province. It
was interesting getting out of the bus because they parked on
the left
side of the street and we had to exit out the right, into
traffic (the
picture actually shows the return). Our driver and guide formed
a
little "L" shape to route us and put themselves between us and
the
oncoming traffic. After a short walk down an alleyway, we came
to a
nondescript building where the registry center was located. All
of
the kids were already upstairs waiting for us.



We walked in and there was another adoption group just
finishing up.
Half the room was sweltering heat and the other half
was relatively
cool. That would describe the general area pretty well -
where
there's shade it's actually pleasant, but in the sun it's
blistering
hot. That explains why so many Chinese use umbrellas just
walking
around. It makes a huge difference.


We only waited about 5 minutes before they began to call
names. It
went very quickly from there. The nannies and orphanage
directors
were in the curtained room off to the left waiting to come
out. One
by one they called the names of the children and the
excited parents
ran up to take them. Pretty soon there was a pile of
parents, kids,
nannies, and social workers and chaos ensued. The social
workers did
a good job of clearing the way and restored some peace.

After about 5 babies or so, it was our turn. They
simply called "Nan
Qi Ya" and out she walked with her nanny. YaYa looked a
tiny bit
apprehensive but not like she'd explode into tears. I
think April was
in a little bit of shock though because she didn't
immediately grab
her. She wanted her to come to the boys first. It has been
over
three years since we first chose to adopt a child from
China. We've
been through a mountain of paperwork, expense, and
personal
sacrifice. The moment was finally here. Here she was, the
little
girl that has adorned our picture frames, computer
wallpaper, and
imaginations. Here was this little girl that we only knew
from
pictures. The little girl which we honestly wondered if
she really
existed. Now here she was, walking toward us.

Soren was the first to greet her

Then I held her briefly and handed her off to Mommy.

After getting the babies, we stuck around the adoption
registry for a
couple more hours, just playing with them and getting to
know them.
Most of them did really well and a couple grieved for a
bit. Only one
of them, an older girl, is still grieving. She is older, 4
years old,
and has already had a tough past. She's such a sweetheart
and we're
sure she'll be just fine once she figures out that her
parents will
never let her go.

YaYa was actually about as perfect as you can imagine. She
took to
the boys right away, bouncing back and forth between Preston's and
Soren's arms. It was amazing that she already had that
much trust and confidence.

Then she seemed to figure out that April was her Mommy and
went running to her.

So all in all, major success! We have to pinch
ourselves. YaYa
really seems happy. We're already seeing lots of smiles
and hugs.

We even got to meet one of YaYa's closest nannies, Miss
Chen. Miss
Chen was present with her during her heart surgery in
Huangzhou.

On the way back to the hotel, YaYa was a little
fireball. She
couldn't sit still and reminded us way too much of a
certain little
redhead we know... |
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