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Monday, July 28, 2008
GOTCHA DAY!


It's "gotcha day". We spend a nervous half day around the hotel waiting to go to the place where we'd pick up Ava. We had brought with us a number of suggested gifts for the orphanage and got busy assembling the gift bags. That didn't take very long so we decided to take a walk along the Pearl River outside the hotel (in 108 degrees). There were lot's of locals in the nearby park dancing, practicing Tai Chi, swimming (in a very polluted Pearl River), playing Mahjongg, etc. We shot a video of a big community singalong that was going on too.

Before going to get the kids all of the moms were full of nervous  energy. Many were walking through the park with us or roaming the halls of the hotel. Some were prone to random bouts of tears. One lady, who has never had a child, had already gone through two boxes of kleenex. (As it turns out, her 3 1/2 year old daughter is missing one hand and blew us all away at dinner last night by tying the laces of a picture book in a bow. You can't imagine how awesome that little girl is. Naturally, Mom is already talking about adopting again.) April was taking it all in stride. I know her stomach was a little upset - she always gets that way with big anticipation of something. I think after having 4 boys she was probably a little more solid than some of the other moms.

Guangzhou is truly an amazing place, and I doubt unlike other cities in China. The things you see here really cause you to put things into perspective. There are buildings for as far as the eye can see in every direction and the streets are teeming with people. The streets are lined with small shops where the shopkeepers sell materials of every kind - pipes, gears, fabrics, etc. Usually there's 2-3 guys sitting around by the shop front, waiting for patrons. Some are shirted, some are not. Many are smoking. It turns out that about 90% of the world's athletic shoes and jeans are manufactured right here in Guangzhou. However, you don't want to actually buy such things in Guangzhou because the Chinese get the seconds.

Riding on the bus to pick up the kids is a surreal experience. We were taught to cross streets only by following the locals, which know the timing intimately. In China, the car has the right of way, not the pedestrian, and I can assure you that they don't stop. It doesn't matter if you're a kid or an elderly lady - they will not stop. Many times, bicyclists would ride right up next to the bus in traffic, while another bus would pass next to them within inches. I never once saw anyone get hit.










Another thing that was truly amazing to us is the way that materials and goods get transferred.
It is largely done by foot power. The Chinese work very hard for very little.



After a 15 minute or so bus ride, we got to the place where we'd pick up the kids - the Adoption Registry Center of Guangdong Province.
It was interesting getting out of the bus because they parked on the left side of the street and we had to exit out the right, into traffic (the picture actually shows the return). Our driver and guide formed a little "L" shape to route us and put themselves between us and the oncoming traffic. After a short walk down an alleyway, we came to a nondescript building where the registry center was located. All of the kids were already upstairs waiting for us.






We walked in and there was another adoption group just finishing up.
Half the room was sweltering heat and the other half was relatively cool. That would describe the general area pretty well - where there's shade it's actually pleasant, but in the sun it's blistering hot. That explains why so many Chinese use umbrellas just walking around. It makes a huge difference.




We only waited about 5 minutes before they began to call names. It went very quickly from there. The nannies and orphanage directors were in the curtained room off to the left waiting to come out. One by one they called the names of the children and the excited parents ran up to take them. Pretty soon there was a pile of parents, kids, nannies, and social workers and chaos ensued. The social workers did a good job of clearing the way and restored some peace.


After about 5 babies or so, it was our turn.
They simply called "Nan Qi Ya" and out she walked with her nanny. YaYa looked a tiny bit apprehensive but not like she'd explode into tears. I think April was in a little bit of shock though because she didn't immediately grab her. She wanted her to come to the boys first. It has been over three years since we first chose to adopt a child from China. We've been through a mountain of paperwork, expense, and personal sacrifice. The moment was finally here. Here she was, the little girl that has adorned our picture frames, computer wallpaper, and imaginations. Here was this little girl that we only knew from pictures. The little girl which we honestly wondered if she really existed. Now here she was, walking toward us.


Soren was the first to greet her


Then I held her briefly and handed her off to Mommy.



After getting the babies, we stuck around the adoption registry for a couple more hours, just playing with them and getting to know them.
Most of them did really well and a couple grieved for a bit. Only one of them, an older girl, is still grieving. She is older, 4 years old, and has already had a tough past. She's such a sweetheart and we're sure she'll be just fine once she figures out that her parents will never let her go.


YaYa was actually about as perfect as you can imagine.
She took to the boys right away, bouncing back and forth between Preston's and Soren's arms. It was amazing that she already had that much trust and confidence.


Then she seemed to figure out that April was her Mommy and went running to her.


So all in all, major success!
We have to pinch ourselves. YaYa really seems happy. We're already seeing lots of smiles and hugs.


We even got to meet one of YaYa's closest nannies, Miss Chen.
Miss Chen was present with her during her heart surgery in Huangzhou.


On the way back to the hotel, YaYa was a little fireball.
She couldn't sit still and reminded us way too much of a certain little redhead we know...

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