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November 13, 2007

Exactly two months ago today we touched down in the United States (at SFO) with our youngest daughter after our journey to bring her home from Nanchang, China. What a difference two months can make!!! As our family has once again found its’ footing as we have all adjusted and recovered and bonded over the last few months, we have been profoundly aware of all that has transpired.

Sarah is doing so very well. It took her longer than we anticipated to recover from the ordeal of her cardiac cath lab experience. Her wound reopened and she contracted some sort of virus just a few days after being in the hospital. It was a very long and difficult couple of weeks and my heart just ached for Sarah. What progress she had made emotionally seemed to have vanished right in front of my eyes and she became withdrawn and sad. It was hard to tell what was emotion and what was just feeling plain “yucky” from being sick. And then, just as astonishing, when the healing was complete and the virus gone, this bright, silly and engaged little girl emerged. She was suddenly more active than she had EVER been and smiling….big goofy grin smiles….at all of us. She was content with everyone in the house. She snuggled…..really snuggled…into my arms when I held her. It was almost as if she released some last hold on her emotions. We have been basking in it ever since. She has taken some steps on her own and can go from a sit to a stand in the middle of the floor. She has put on a little over two pounds which, on her tiny frame, is glorious news for sure. We are celebrating the emergence of ‘chub’ on her little behind and thighs. Her external symptoms of malnutrition have all but disappeared. Her hair is shiny, her nails are growing and she has fat on her. So very happy! And, turning out to be the greatest news of all, is that we, in consultation with her doctor, have determined to wait until spring for her surgery. She is in a good place right now and seems to be handling the increase in activity just fine. This will give her much needed time for physical growth and more time to attach and grow emotionally as well. I was so anxious to hurry home and ‘fix her up’ (my nature is to plan, and then DO) and this is simply not the plan Heavenly Father had for her. It is clear to her dad and I that she needs this time to just BE…..be loved, be cared for, be stronger, be bigger, be HAPPY! And then we will face the first surgery together….as a family.

Also, in the last few months, we have finished Eric and Jon’s football seasons, started Eric and Sam’s basketball seasons, celebrated Family Gotcha Day with Mandi, dressed up for Halloween, cheered on our Broncos (AND Trojans AND Cougars) and generally had a happy time as a family. Brian and I are so proud of all of the kids and the great decisions they are making. They are a true joy to us.

As we prepare to host our family Thanksgiving this year we wish to share the things we are thankful for:

We are thankful for Eric, Jacob, Jonathan, Samuel, Amanda and Sarah, each a precious treasure from God. We are thankful for extended family who opened their hearts and hands wide to love these two precious girls as they were added to an already loved set of boys. We are thankful for our faith in our Savior. We are thankful for a loving Father who has blessed our lives so richly. We are thankful for the kindness and compassion we have been shown by friends and strangers alike as we have traveled this journey. We are thankful for the abundance of material blessings in our life and pray that we always remember to be generous to those less fortunate than ourselves. We are thankful for the treasure, not of this earth, we have been entrusted with and pray that we live in such a way as to always be worthy of it. We are THANKFUL. Happy Thanksgiving to all of you! Until next month………


 

 
Our beautiful girls in their beautiful outfits


Mandi goofing around at
Eric's football game with Uncle Tom


Some of the crew at the Pumpkin Patch.


Peek A Boo, I see you!


Cousin Grace, Uncle Ron and Mandi on Halloween night


Waving HI!


Playing with our sweet cousin Jessica
(who let us decorate her hair!!)


Having fun

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