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November 15, 2008

Hi Everyone,
 
It is hard to believe that it has been two months since our last update. We have had a busy few months. Sophia continues to amaze and delight everyone around her. She is charming, loving, and quite the little princess!! We wouldn't have it any other way!!! She has grown and changed so much in such a short amount of time. We are certainly enjoying our life as a family of four!!

Sophia loves to learn new things!! She loves, loves, loves books and so does her little brother. I often catch the two of them reading books together on the floor! She is starting to reread her favorite books to us at bedtime. She cracks us up! She also loves music and singing. She loves to sing "The Wheels on the Bus", "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star", and "Pat a Cake". Graham loves to sing too! Sophia is learning some of her letters. She can identify letter S for Sophia, G for Graham, M for Mommy, and D for Daddy. We are working on R for Rocky and W for Wingo. She is beginning to find those letters in books and print. She can count to ten most of the time and sometimes she can count to thirteen. She has discovered the joy of Play-Dough. She loves to fingerpaint with her brother too! Sophia also loves to dress up and wear my shoes or Daddy's shoes around the house (whichever she can find). She continues to be the best big sister in the world to her little brother Graham. Graham is officially walking on his own now. He has been taking a few steps and pulling himself up for months, but now he is on the go. Sophia loves holding his hand and helping him walk when Graham will allow her to help him. He likes to be Mr. Independent!! She still wants to help change his diaper and feed him when she can. Sophia also like to bring Graham toys to play with too! When Graham cries, she is the first to tell him "It's okay!" and she will pat him on his back just like Mommy and Daddy do to comfort him! Now, there are times when the little princess turns into that terrible two year old and hits her brother. Thankfully, she doesn't like time out so the hitting stops as quickly as it starts most of the time!!

Sophia had her reconstuction surgery on October 17th! She did great and Dr. Vinocur is pleased with her recovery. Dr. Vinocur is such a wonderful surgeon. He truly cares about Sophia and that makes us feel very at ease. Sophia only had one restriction after her surgery. She couldn't ride her bike for two weeks after surgery. I thought it would be difficult for her to not ride her bike, but all I had to tell her was Dr. Vinocur said "no bikes". When she would go over to her bike, all I had to say is what did Dr. Vinocur say about riding your bike and she would reply "no, no, no!!" Too cute! We have been back to see Dr. Vinocur three times since her surgery for post-op visits. She needs to be completly healed before the ostomy bag can come off. We are still hoping it will be off before Christmas!!

Sophia and Graham enjoyed their first Halloween. Sophia dressed up as Minnie Mouse. Aunt Dana gave her the costume as a present after her palate surgery in July and it was the perfect Halloween costume. Graham, of course, dressed up as Mickey Mouse. I couldn't resist! Plus, it will be the only chance I get to dress them in matching costumes. I am sure next year they will be more involved in picking out their costumes. Daddy took Sophia and Graham to several homes in our neighborhood. I think Erik had as much fun as the children did trick-or-treating!!

My parents took us to Disney World last week. Aunt Dana was able to sneak away from work for a few days to join us too!! The only thing missing was Daddy!! He had to stay at home and go to work. Sophia and Graham loved Disney World! Sophia loved meeting Mickey and Minnie in person. Graham was more indifferent to the whole idea of meeting Mickey and Minnie! It was so much fun to experience Disney World through the eyes of Sophia and Graham!! We ate breakfast at Disney Hollywood Studios with the characters from Little Einstein. Sophia and Graham didn't know any of the characters because they don't watch t.v., but it was still fun! We found out that the characters were a little scary for Graham at first. Sophia was a little apprehensive meeting the charaters at first, but warmed up quickly. She even gave Minnie a kiss on the nose!!!! Graham perferred to look at them from the safety of Mommy's arms!! Sophia and Graham enjoyed being spoiled by Mom Mom, Dziadzi, and Aunt Dana. We also visited Magic Kingdom and Epcot! We hope to go back to Disney World again soon, but this time we want to take Daddy along too!!

Sophia's speech continues to improve each day. She is quite the talker! She is putting several words together when trying to express her thoughts and feelings. We think her speech has become much clearer. She still hasn't said anything for her teachers at school or for Dr. Vinocur. She is doing a great job working with her speech therapist, Miss Carolyn! She is talking and using many sounds more consistently!! We are so proud of her!!

Sophia has had a set back with her sleeping habits for a few weeks. She prefers to fall asleep in our bed instead of her "big girl bed". We put her in her own bed afer she falls asleep. She is still waking up once a night, but she is not having night terrors. We are so grateful! She still ends up in bed with us on most nights. We are hoping that once her ostomy bag is off and there will be no surgeries in her immediate future, and that she will sleep more soundly in her own bed.

November brings more doctor's appointments for Sophia. We meet with her palate surgeon and the hospital speech therapist later in the month. We also go back to see the pediatric dentist for her six month check-up next week. Plus, I am sure we will be seeing Dr. Vinocur several times again this month!! When I tell Sophia we are going to see Dr. Vinocur, she tells me he is her buddy!! We also have to go back to get the second dose of the flu shot for both Sophia and Graham.

We are looking forward to the Thanksgiving holiday and celebrating Daddy's birthday!! We can't wait to celebrate Christmas with our two little ones. We certainly hope Santa won't be too scary for Sophia and Graham. It should be a very exciting holiday season for our family!

Fall Fun!


I love to fingerpaint!


Waiting for Dr. Vinocur!


The cutest Minnie Mouse ever!


The cutest Mickey Mouse ever!


My little brother!


Disney Diva!


Minnie kisses!


I love Disney World!!

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