We're Home
July
2008
We're home!
Actually, we've been home for about 2 weeks and I have to
apologize for being remiss on updating this site. It's
been a wonderful whirlwind since we landed back in the
good ol' US of A on June 27th. We were greeted at the
Atlanta airport by my mom and her friend, Wil, after an
amazingly painless 24-hour travel day. Shepherd, since he
loves to be held, was in his element: planted firmly in
one of our laps for the entire 24 hours. He ate, laughed,
played and slept with just a fuss or two thrown in for
good measure. We had wonderful seats on the long flight
from Tokyo to Detroit: the last two seats together at the
back corner of the plane... it was heavenly to be away
from the crowd and the claustrophobia brought on by a
typical trans-Pacific flight. The stewardess hooked us up
with a tray of drinks behind our seats (actually, I think
they were for everyone, but we like to believe they were
just for us ;)) and between that and the free space we had
between our seats and the bathrooms, we were quite
content.
It was SO wonderful to be welcomed home by all of our
little ones! Everyone had enjoyed their time with Aunt
Angie and Uncle Bob and it showed. They were all suntanned
(especially the ones who didn't inherit my painfully pale
skin) and smiles when we pulled up in the driveway. After
unloading ourselves and our baggage, we all packed back
into the car to head to our favorite Mexican spot: Moe's.
Everyone managed to put back more than their share and we
contentedly hauled ourselves back to Angie's house for the
night. Chris slept with Shepherd and I slept with Jude. We
all slept fairly well which was no surprise considering
our exhaustion from the long trip home. The next day we
spent the morning enjoying some lazy time, I woke up at
10:00 and Chris slept until I woke him at 11:15. In the
afternoon we packed it up and headed to Georgia Tech to
take our lovely Victoria out for a very special dinner at
our second most favorite Mexican spot: Taco Bell :) Too
soon it was time to get on the road again and we said a
quick goodbye to our girl and headed for home.
Once home, life quickly became fast-paced and hectic with
appointments and arrangements for Shepherd's treatment. We
had our first dr. appointment on July 2 and Shepherd was
declared 'healthy' despite some fluid in his ears and a
double ear infection. The next dose of bad news was that
he was due for 6 shots and had to have blood drawn to
check his immunity to HepB... but we were happy about the
'healthy' part of the doctor's exam! He weighed 20 pounds
and measured 30 3/4 long. The doctor scheduled a visit for
Shepherd with the ENT who will remove his ear tag and
examine his ears to see if he needs to have tubes placed
to get rid of the fluid that has been sitting in his ears,
despite 3 rounds of antibiotics.
Shepherd helped us celebrate my birthday on the 3rd and
our country's independence on the 4th. He certainly
enjoyed the fireworks more than my birthday (even though
he did give that cupcake a workout!). He couldn't contain
his joy as he pointed and motioned towards our homemade
fireworks display, which included sparklers and $30 worth
of WalMart fireworks. Our local fireworks show was to
start at 9:30 and with a crew like ours, that's WAY too
late. So we opted for a pre bedtime show for the youngest
four kiddos that included sparklers and some of the
smaller fireworks, and then held a second round after dark
for the big kids. Shepherd surprised us by not having any
fear of the sounds or the lights like his big sister
Isabelle, in fact, he held a sparkler all by himself!
Biggest sis Victoria came in for the weekend of the 4th
and as usual, made our time together as a family that much
sweeter.
On July 7, Shepherd and I headed to Iowa City for the
first of 6-7 castings that Shepherd will undergo to
correct his bilateral clubfoot. It was a hectic trip
there, as our flight was delayed due to weather and July
4th holiday travel, but the remainder of our time once in
Iowa was surprisingly pleasant. Upon driving into Iowa
City, I was filled with happy memories of our trip last
summer when we stayed for the month of July during Jude's
castings. Although I consider that time to be one of the
most difficult times of my life, God reminded me of all
the fun and joyful times we had during our stay. When we
arrived at the hospital on Monday morning, I was so
relieved to finally have Shepherd in the hands of the
doctors I consider to be the very best in the world: Dr.
Ponseti and Dr. Morcuende. Dr. Morcuende examined Shepherd
and quickly determined that his feet would be easily
corrected, possibly even faster than Jude's. He also
remembered that I had emailed him when we had some
concerns about Shepherd's hands, so he took some time to
evaluate Shepherd's hands and how he uses them. Thankfully
he said that Shepherd was a totally healthy little guy,
with normal use of his hands. Such blessed news! Shepherd
tolerated his first casting very well, although he was
acutely aware that we were in a strange place with strange
people. But Dr. Morcuende has a way about him (and the O*reos
didn't hurt either!) and soon Shepherd was laying quietly
on a pillow as his first cast was applied. We were done
less than an hour after our appointment began and goodbyes
were easy since we knew we would be returning the next
Monday for cast #2.
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Brothers at last!

Starting to enjoy the baby pool

Bubbles + bathtub = happy boy

Our littlest puppy

Helping celebrate mommy's 40th birthday!

Watching fireworks in the yard

"These fireworks are the BEST!"
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We headed over to the local mall for lunch with Lisa, my
good friend from last summer. She brought her beautiful
kiddos who managed to make Shepherd smile for the duration
of our time together. It was fantastic to catch up with
her and time passed too quickly and we had to head back to
the Ronald McDonald House. We tidied our room, packed our
bags and headed out for the airport, arriving in plenty of
time for our flight out. Good thing too, because TSA
decided Shepherd looked questionable and pulled us aside
so they could swab his casts and his hands for
who-knows-what. If I hadn't been so tired of lugging him,
our bags and his newly applied plaster casts, I'd have
found it amusing... needless to say, I didn't. The good
news was that our flight was on time and that meant we
would arrive home on time.
Since our return from Iowa we have managed to fill all our
'free' moments packing up for the big move. Yes, we're
moving and we're moving ourselves. Our house sold while we
were in China (Yea God!!) and our closing date is July
25th. We found an awesome house for our family on Saturday
(a week ago) and now have a contract on it, the closing is
set for the 28th! We are thrilled since we didn't think we
were going to find a house that suited our family's unique
demands, but God provided! And the motivation provided by
our new house sure helps with the packing up of this old
one ;)
So while we were busy before, we are even busier now!
Thankfully Shepherd seems to have fallen right into the
chaos and is loving it. He is happiest when there is a lot
of commotion and our older kids are happy to oblige. He is
sleeping well at night and eating well during the day. He
takes 3-4 bottles a day and is learning to chew and
swallow his food better all the time. He will try many
foods but as he is forgetting what it feels like to be
painfully hungry, he is turning away from more and more of
what we offer. His favorites are crackers, O*reos, rice,
carrots, chips, popcorn and banana. He'll also eat some
baby food, but he looks more offended than happy when he
eats it so we are trying to offer less of that and more
table foods. He is learning to use a sippy cup, thanks to
his big brother Jude who carries one around all day.
Shepherd has learned to come along behind big bro to pick
up what he leaves behind... we recently realized he was
drinking all of Jude's juice. This is great news since he
had turned his nose up at juice before, now we just need
to teach him how to tip his cup back to get every last
drop, just like Jude! He and Jude have already begun to
form a brotherly relationship as Shepherd thinks Jude is
hilarious. And Jude loves being the 'big boy' comedian. We
can't wait to watch their relationship evolve.
Shepherd is making more and more sounds all the time, and
he loves to imitate. At the dinner table he will start
clapping his hands or screeching, hoping that someone will
join in his game and start imitating him. He likes to say,
"da" for dog (he loves Velvet) and has tried to say many
words including 'sticker', 'bye bye', 'mama' and 'dada'.
His favorite means of communication is the scream and he
has quite a repertoire. Today he added the 'police siren'
scream when he heard his brother's video game and imitated
the sound. Oh, yeah!! Needless to say, we're hoping his
speech picks up and the screaming subsides.
Once again God has chosen the perfect child for our
family. As he settles into our home and finds his spot in
our hearts, we are reminded of God's plan to bring this
child into our lives at this time. When God first started
us on this journey we balked and we questioned. But as we
look into the precious face of this child, how grateful we
are that He made His purposes clear: Shepherd was to be
our son. We are blessed indeed!
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