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June 2008 Update

Well, the month of June has literally flown by!!! Zoe finished her first year of preschool and performed on the stage – not once, but twice. She got to be a princess for a day and partook in the girliest pillow fight ever in the history of the world! (The point of the “fight” between Mia and Zoe was that one was supposed to knock the other off a pole they were both seated upon, but they were both ridiculously gentle in “hitting” the other – think more along the lines of gentle taps cushioned with pillows – LOL!!!) When we went on a fishing excursion with our local Asian Connections group, we discovered our girl is NOT afraid to touch a worm, she’s not very patient when waiting for a fish to bite, and she experienced her very first rowboat ride. We played in the sprinkler, rode bikes, read books, and had friends over to play … and that was all in the first week of summer vacation!!! Rob got a tick, too… can you say, DRAMATIC!?!

We also made an interesting discovery this month. Zoe will, indeed, eat a hot dog if you peel the skin off. Can you imagine!?!

And, for over a year, I have been saying to myself that Lexi’s adoption is about a year away. But all of the sudden, in the last few weeks, we have come to realize that we are probably between three and five months from a referral!!! HOLY COW!!! Zoe, Rob, and I have all come to the realization that Lexi is alive and spending her days somewhere in China! She is breathing the same air and living under the same moon as we do. Each morning she wakes up and needs a bottle. She cries and needs her diaper changed. Perhaps she is able to reach out and touch the hand of the baby in the crib next to hers at naptime. Hopefully she is well fed, laughing often, and safe. Zoe prays daily that Lexi has someone to love her and take care of her. I pray she knows the gentle touch of a loving caretaker as she lives out each of her days in China. All our hearts now beat in unison with the child who is half a world away. It won’t be much longer now …

Zoe performing in her first Chinese dance.
You can watch it here - she's fourth from the left.


The pillow fight heard round the world.


Relaxing on a rowboat together.


Just fishin' with Daddy.


Worms - cool!!!


Zoe's ballet demonstration on the big stage.
She's wearing a black leotard, in the center,
and to the right of the older girl wearing the blue skirt.


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